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Dear Shazad
I am a man of needs and like to get what I want. I was not deprived as a child
or ever dropped on my head. Recently I started to date this girl, same age as
me, and everything was going well. We even had sex on many occasions. We did
oral, dressing up and bondage. We enjoyed every moment of it and our orgasms
were real. But then one day she bought a strap-on and wanted to take me up the
back entrance. I kindly declined the offer, as I know anal sex can cause a weak
rectum, which leads to a person excreting in the bed. After this our sex life
has not been the same. What shall we do? Shall I let her take me up the
backside?
hi there,
thanks for writing to me. First of all, i would like to say that your problem is
very common, where one of the partners wishes to progress to a new stage of
their sexual life and the other partner does not approve. This is where you
should reach a comfortable compromise with your partner. It is vital that both
of you reach a comfortable compromise and not one where you are forced to do
something you dont want to. From what you have written, it is clear to me that
you do not wish to have anal intercourse, so what i recommend and what i think
is very important is that you sit with your girl friend and have a serious 1 to
1 chat. You must tell her how you feel and what YOU want. Dont be forced, as
force often results in regret,
I wish you the best of luck and i hope i have been of some help. Please feel
free to write again or keep us updated on any issues that have arisen,
Yours truely
Shazad
hey, i have a problem. thing is that i gotta best mate his name
is Jas, and we get on soo well like i can chat to him bout anything. but hes
goin out with this girl and everytime i wanna go somewhere or something, he
always wats to go out with her instead. i am happy for him and all. but anyway,
the other day i went to see him and he started tellin me shit like how pretty i
was and that and i took it as a joke, but he was serious he started comin on to
me and i backed away. so me his girlfriend and him r havin a three way
conversation, he starts teelin her how i we have feelings for each other while
his gals there! so im gettin cornered by these to tellin me how out of order i
am. i felt really bad coz i did like him but i neva made a move on him. so
infront of his girl he was saying how 2faced i am, and wen she went he was
sucking up proper sayin mandy oh i really wana b mates with u, and im a 4givin
person i said leave it. do u think i should have?
thanx
love mandy
london
Dearest Mandy,
first of all i would like to begin by thanking you for writing to me and
secondly for having the courage to write to me. the answer to me is straight
forward and i am surprised that you have been unable to see through this guy.
infront of his girlfriend he is dissing you and then he sucks up to you when she
is gone. dont u think he trying to have the best of both worlds? even if he does
dump his girlfriend for you, dont you think he will do the same to you, if and
when he meets another girl in the future?
i hope i have been of some help, and please feel free to write back for any more
advice
Your resident Agony Uncle
Shazad
